Showing posts with label Chester NJ. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Chester NJ. Show all posts

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Sunday Morning Reading

A letter from 9 year old John Quincy Adams
by Charlie Leck

On Sunday mornings I try to lightened up and post something more refreshing, or entertaining, or humorous than I post on other days. A couple of months ago, I reread JFK’s celebrated book from 1956, Profiles in Courage. In the chapter about John Qunicy Adams (JQA), the 6th President of the United States, who also served in the Senate and the House, Kennedy included the text of a letter that JQA wrote and sent to his father when he was only 9 years old.

Oh, my! Nine years old and writing a letter like this.

Dear Sir:

I love to receive letters very well; much better than I love to write them. I make but a poor figure at composition. My head is much too fickle. My thoughts are running after bird’s eggs, play and trifles, til I get vexed with myself. Mamma has a troublesome task to keep me a studying. I own I am ashamed of myself. I have but just entered the third volume of Rollin’s History, but designed to have got half through it by this time. I am determined this week to be more diligent. I have set myself a stint to read the third volume half out. If I can but keep my resolution, I may again at the end of the week give a better account of myself. I wish, sir, you would give me in writing some instructions with regard to the use of my time, and advise me how to proportion my studies and play, and I will keep them by me, and endeavor to follow them.

With the present determination of growing better, I am, dear sir, your son, John Quincy Adams

Let’s see, at 9 I was in fourth grade, or so. I don’t believe I had ever written a full letter to anyone. My first letter writing experience was in that year, when I sent off some love letters to an attractive and lovely female classmate who was wintering in Georgia. To my great embarrassment, those letters, I am told, are still in existence. Believe me, I would never allow them to be reprinted so they could be compared to the 9 year old JQA.

Oh, my!


That is I, circled in this phototograph from my 4th grade class.
I cannot find in this picture the pretty and precious classmate upon
whom I had such a mad crush. She was probably away on her winter
leave in Georgia. I do see so many extraordinary and wonderful
friends, however, who I loved then and remember so fondly now.
I've written about many of these classmates a number of times.

Teddy, sitting to my left, was a bully and I had to fight him once or
twice in order to retain face and honor. Liz Metzger is sitting behind
me. She was one of the finest athletes I ever knew. Judy O'Brien, a
scholar and kind, kind person is sitting behind Teddy. Harry Smith,
a very nice kid and someone with whom I regret not spending more
time, is the skinny kid in the striped t-shirt in the near center of the
photo. Bobby Apgar, with whom I did spend a great deal of time, is
in the foreground and behind him is a good friend and playmate,
the late Arlene Barnhart.

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Monday, February 15, 2010

The Jalopy


Trying to remember that old vehicle causes me to strain and grimace, but, with the help of an old photo, I remember it!
by Charlie Leck

Lots of news is bombarding us today from Afghanistan and Washington, and I've gone through the Sunday NY Times pretty thoroughly, but I'm not in the mood for analyzing the news this morning. I was flipping through some old photos that one of my brothers sent me and they bring back faint memories. Maybe this is something all old men do; that is, trying to remember their boyhood days. I do this regularly here, but not for myself, but to leave a record of growing up in America. Can you imagine the treasure trove future historians are going to have when, a hundred years from now, they can look back on the blogs written by the world's very common people. I do not pretend to do it for important historians. I do it for my grandchildren and their grandchildren, so they will have, when I am among the stars, a more personal record than a historic one of their funny, old grandpa.

The photo above is the only one I've come acrosss of the crazy vehicle and it (the photo) was really in bad shape -- faded, and filled with scratches, chips, creases and stains. It took some patience, working with good, old Photoshop (perhaps, itself, a nearly forgotten item of history when you are old enough to read this) to get the snapshot into some kind of reasonable condition. As you look at it, the vehicle is behind my father's old, general store in Chester, New Jersey, in an alleyway between the store and an old storage barn just fifteen feet behind it. That old barn was off limits. We were not supposed to go into it because it was in such bad condition and really wasn't included in the lease arrangements that my father had with the owner of the buildings and the property. You can probably guess that we went in there anyway and climbed around in the rafters and curiously looked through all the old, old junk that was stored in there. Just being boys, you know!

Out ahead of the old Ford is Main Street, running to the left (west) and right (east). Across the way is an old building where one of my best pals lived (Buddy). The town library was also housed in that building for a portion of my growing up years. The very back end of the automobile that sits across the street indicates to me that the photo had to be taken after 1946 or '47. By the '50s, I think this old, decrepit car was gone.

Today I'm trying to remember everything I can about the jalopy. That's what we called the old Ford when we were little. It was a hybrid before it's time -- half car and half pickup. Other folks pointed to us when we drove down the road -- especially when we were in the big city -- and we'd wave to them and simply enjoy their reaction.

The Model A Ford in that photo was built with a rear passenger compartment called a rumble seat. Someone – my old man or someone else – removed the seat and installed a box back there to convert the vehicle into a pickup truck. The box wasn’t any more than 3’x4’ but it held a couple of milk cans or a couple of kids on a hot, summer afternoon.

So my memories of it come from when I was no more than 10 years old and, likely, younger. It's not easy to remember things in very great detail from those years in one's life; yet there are memories of this beat up old auto that come back to me in strange detail. If I try really hard, I can even remember the old, musty smell of it when I was riding up there in the front seat while my dad was driving down the street toward the Borough Hall. We were hauling a couple of our old, empty milk cans to the town pump, to get drinking water. In those years when I was little, before I was 10, we didn't have running water in our home. There was an old pump in our kitchen, from which we could get water of a sort, but not anything we would want to drink or do our cooking in. So, we'd fill the milk pails right up to the top from the town's public well. I remember how icy cold the water was and how I’d gather a bowl full in my cupped hands and try to drink it down before it spilled or leaked away between my fingers.

There weren't many people in town who didn't have plumbing and running water in their homes, but there were a few of us.

I remember mainly the drive all the way into the Bronx in that old beater of a car. We’d get more and more toots and hoots as we got closer and closer to the urban, sophisticated regions, nearing the George Washington Bridge. The Ford kept humming along (chugging in a way) and it was thrilling to go bouncing across the Hudson River, so high above it. I was little enough that I had to lift myself up and strain to see out the window. It was spectacular to see the mighty river so far down below us.

I remember we hauled my Grandpa Svejda with us on the return trip back out to Jersey. I got tucked in the middle of the front seat with the two big and old men on either side of me. The gear shift handle was between my legs and my old man warned me not to kick it. It was only about 45 miles from my Grandpa’s place out to our place in Jersey, but the drive took a couple of hours. My grandpa couldn’t make the whole trip without stopping to “see a man about a horse.” I wasn’t allowed to join them on these stops. I had to stay in the car and protect the luggage left out in the open truck box in the back. Grandpa and Dad went into a bar across a busy street, to go to the toilet they said; but I could smell the liquor on my Grandpa’s breath when he returned and slapped me on the knee and laughed at me. They’d brought back a bottle of Yoo-Hoo Chocolate Drink for me.

My dad shook me awake when we were on the North Road, close to entering the Borough of Chester.

“Almost home,” he said.

It had grown dark outside and the weak headlights of the jalopy were bouncing up and down as we rolled up Main Street toward the old, old general store that was our home. I was hungry and thirsty and had to get to a toilet quickly.

Life was going to be good for a while. My grandpa was here and we were going to listen to Dodger games together on the radio. He’d tell me about every batter that came to the plate and explain how the pitcher was going to place the ball and how the infield had curled around toward right field or was playing him tight at the corners. My grandpa loved his Dodgers more than any man on earth and he understood baseball better than anyone in the world. He’d get worse than angry when Stan Musial banged one over the right field fence against his Dodgers and I thought he was going to kick the big radio. He’d let out a mighty string of swear words, but they were in another language – Bohunk, I think – so they didn’t count with my mother as did the nasty cuss words I’d get my mouth washed out for saying.

“Go get me a Schaefer,” my Grandpa would tell me, “before they get this new pitcher warmed up. Take it from the back of the cooler so it’ll be colder.” While my Grandpa visited we kept a case of his beloved Schaefer beer tucked in the bottom of the milk cooler out in the store.

My brothers and sister all learned to drive behind the wheel of the old jalopy. I remember my sister taking it off to a dance one time. She came home aggravated about how the boys had made fun of her old car. She’d beg my parents to go out and get a respectable vehicle.

One day, after we’d installed running water and joined the semi-civilized world, my old man did go out and buy a real car. I think it was around 1951 and my mother hadn’t turned real sick yet and money was okay, so he bought a big, maroon 1947 Desoto Deluxe. It was a pretty slick looking automobile compared to the old jalopy. The Desoto was a “previously driven automobile” as they nowadays refer to used cars. It seemed in pretty good shape, but one rear fender began to lose its color a month or so after we got it and faded to a misty gray tone instead of maroon. One of my big brothers, both of whom knew everything in the world, told me it had been in an accident and the cheat-salesman hadn’t told my old man that it had been repainted. It wasn’t as much fun as the jalopy because it had big huge seats and I couldn’t see out the window when I sat in the car. It also had a back seat, I didn’t get to sit up front between my grandpa and my old man. Times had changed, however, and we weren’t hauling milk cans full of water from the town hall pump anymore. We had a bathtub now with hot and cold water and a toilet that flushed, and I was combing my own hair now.

I missed the jalopy and thought about it lots for a year or two after we got the Desoto. It sure was more fun to go down the street and see the people pointing at us and laughing at the sight of that beat up, old car.




I never stop being amazed at what hard work writing well is. I keep trying, though, and I keep trying to get better and better. I’ve got some dreams I’d like to fulfill, but it sure is hard work.

“Style, in its finest sense, is the last acquirement of the educated mind; it is also the most useful” [Alfred North Whitehead]

Saturday, July 4, 2009

Milltown Pond


The Cooper Mill – an old grist mill right across the road from our swimming pond – as it is preserved as a historic site today. It wasn’t restored in our swimming days and it was pretty run down.

Swimming down by the Old Mill
by Charlie Leck

It’s July and it’s the heart of summer; however, here in Minnesota, it’s quite fair. It hasn’t risen above the 70s for the last few days and it is pleasant to go out walking or to work in the yard. I’m not jiving you either. Sure, it’s usually hotter than Hades here at this time of year and it can be mighty muggy, too. So, we’ll just take this weather and be grateful for it and enjoy the great outdoors, wearing a sweater in the evenings. The newspapers are telling folks they may need sweaters for fireworks displays on the night of the 4th of July. Aah, that’s living.

Some of my readers are asking me to continue to let my mind wander backwards to those childhood years in the little borough of Chester – to a time when I lived above my old man’s general store – to July days in the very early 1950s.

I was 10 years old in the summer of 1951. Baseball dominated my summer days. There was nothing I preferred than to go to the ball field to throw, hit and catch. I spent a lot of wonderful hours up there on the dirt diamond with Buddy Thompson, Hank Meyers, Charlie Adams, Allan Lum, Toby Barkman and a number of other guys. Usually there was some big guy or adult around who would hit flies and grounders to us and we honed our defense by the hour.

Our great reward for a couple of good hours on the ball field was a hike down to Milltown Pond for an hour of swimming and diving off the big rock along the stream that flowed under Highway 24 and then ran along past the Old Mill. Lordsy, these were good times for most of us. Some of the guys wouldn’t make the trip down to the pond because it was a long walk from the heart of town down to our swimming hole. It was the walk back home that frightened away most of the kids because the first third of the hike was up a long, steep hill before the plateau that led into town was reached.

There was nothing like stretching out on that big rock along the stream in the bright sunshine of July. The boulder was large enough to allow five or six of us to spread out. Then, when the moment was just right, a bunch of us would rise and jog to the edge of the stream and jump off the rock together and into the cold, running water.

It was on that very rock that I first heard our buddy Sonny describe peeping at a naked girl. It was a teenage cousin of his who was staying at his house and Sonny knew of a way of getting out on the porch roof and peeking through a crack beneath the drawn down, but slightly too short, window shade. How clearly I remember – to this day I remember – the stirring it caused inside me. He described her luscious breasts and her curving hips and the nothingness at her crotch. From his room he could hear the shower running across the hallway and he knew it was time to position himself on the roof of the porch because his cousin would rush from the bathroom, wrapped in a big towel, and allow the wrap to fall away just as soon as she had safely gotten into the bedroom and locked the door.

We all had dozens of questions for Sonny, but we really just wanted him to repeat the visuals and use the tantalizing words again and again. The heat of the afternoon sun seemed to penetrate us as we listened to him and how each of us envied him so very much.

The two mile walk back home wasn’t so bad because there were a couple of adventures along the way that broke the monotony. The first was a stop at the Old Mill Tavern, a little joint just 50 yards up the hill. Kids weren’t really allowed in the drinking establishment, but my father had cleared the way for me to pop my head in the door to purchase a hunk of salty, smoked herring that I could share with my buddies on the trek back home. The fish made us immediately and desperately thirsty, but another quarter mile along the way we went by a home that had a lovely, refreshing natural spring right in the front yard. It was a pretty, convenient little place. One had to bend way down into the hole in order to lap at the quickly running water or, if lucky enough to have a cup along, to reach down and scoop up the cold, delightful liquid. There was watercress growing all around on the edges of the water hole and some of the kids enjoyed picking it and chewing on it. I always found its taste too strong and I avoided it.

Refreshed, the last leg of the hill wasn’t too bad. Once we reached the crest of the hill and flat ground it was only an easy mile back into our little, country town. The walk led us past the Mennen Farm, the beautiful estate of the family that owned the company that produced dozens of kinds of soaps and creams and deodorants for the human body. They and the Chubb family (of the big insurance company) were the very wealthy folks of our little town and everyone envied and respected the families a great deal. Further on we passed the little and multifaceted business owned by the Itailian Morelli family. Right across the highway from there was the wonderful Maple Tree Inn, where my parents liked to go on weekend evenings to meet up with friends. And, finally, when we got up even with the old coal yards, we knew we had only to use caution to cross the busy Highway 206 and then we could saunter right up Main Street, dropping off kids as we went until, usually, only Buddy Thompson and I were left as we passed the firehouse and the little town park with its honor roll to the local boys who died in World War I and II.

I tried to fall asleep in the warm darkness of the night, with the window wide open, thinking in wonder about Sonny’s description of his naked girl cousin.

Geez, he was a lucky guy to see such a sight! It was a good thought to drag with me into my slumber.

Those were the days my friend
We thought they’d never end
We’d sing and dance forever and a day
We’d live the life we choose
We’d fight and never lose
For we were young and sure to have our way…

Those were the days, oh yes those were the days

[lyrics by Gene Raskin]