Standing with those who Stand Up for Marriage Rights for All

The Washington Post, this morning (16 March 2013), published a list of prominent political figures who support marriage rights for gays and lesbians. I was pleased to go through the list and I felt compelled to add a few more political figures from Minnesota to that list.
by Charlie Leck

You can see the Washington Post list, if you’d like, by going here. Without the paper’s comments about each of these figures, I reproduce the list for you below…

President of the United States, Barack H. Obama, D

Former President of the United States, Jimmy Carter, D

Former President of the United States, Bill Clinton, D

Former First Lady of the United States, Laura Bush, R

Vice President of the United States, Joseph Biden, D

Former Vice President of the United States, Dick Chaney, R

U.S. Senator Rob Portman, R-Ohio

U.S. Representative from Florida, Ileana Ros-Lehtinen, R

Governor of the State of New York, Andrew M. Cuomo, D

Mayor of the City of Chicago, Rahm Emanuel, D

Mayor of the City of Los Angeles, Antonio Villaraigosa, D

Mayor of the City of New York, Michael Bloomberg, I

Mayor of the City of Newark, NJ, Cory Booker, D

Governor of the State of Washington, Chris Gregoire, D

Governor of the State of Maryland, Martin O’Malley, D

U.S. Secretary of Education, Arne Duncan, D

Former U.S. Secretary of State, Colin Powell, R

Chair of the Democratic National Committee, Debbie Wasserman Schultz, D

Daughter of a former President of the United States, Caroline Kennedy, D

There are many prominent American politicians not included on the Washington Post list, including these Minnesotans who should be mentioned,…

Governor of Minnesota, Mark Dayton, D
U.S. Senator Amy Klobuchar, Minnesota, D
U.S. Senator Al Franken, Minnesota, D
Mayor of the City of Minneapolis, R.T. Rybek, D

Some members of the Minnesota State Legislature are trying to work a bill through the House and Senate that will allow marriage rights for gays and lesbians. If they do, the Governor will certainly. You can support this effort by contributing to Minnesotans United for All Families. It’s an organization I’m proud to support.

The Washington Post story this morning also pointed out that same-sex marriage is currently legal in the following nations:

Argentina
Belgium
Canada
Iceland
The Netherlands
Norway
Portugal
South Africa
Spain
Sweden

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Maryland will Approve Same-Sex Marriage

While Minnesota voters go to the polls on November 6 to consider a constitutional amendment that will define marriage as only between a man and a woman, the state of Maryland considers just the opposite; that is, to allow marriage between gay men and women.
by Charlie Leck

Maryland already has a law on the books that allows for marriage among same-sex couples. Now, in this year’s election, it looks as if voters in Maryland will vote to uphold that law. The significance of this is that Maryland would become the first state in the nation to approve of such a law by a state-wide vote.

Hooray for Maryland! I hope the polling in Maryland is correct. It currently shows that among people who intend to vote 58 percent say they plan to vote in favor of such a right to marry someone of the same sex.

If you’d like, read the Washington Post story: MARYLAND LEANS TOWARD HISTORIC EMBRACE OF SAME SEX MARRIAGE IN VOTE NEXT MONTH.

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New York Votes for Gay Marriage

I’m celebrating this morning for good, old New York. How different it is from rural Minnesota and my small town.
by Charlie Leck

That small percentage inside me that is gay is rejoicing mightily this morning as I read in the NY Times that the state of New York has passed a law that will give gays and lesbians the right to marry and all the legal protections and benefits that go with marriage. Hooray!

An old friend of mine and an expert of matters of the Protestant Church and its relationship to gays and lesbians, many years ago, taught me a great deal about what it means to be gay. He theorized that each and every one of us has a percentage of our sexual makeup that is gay. It might be a very tiny percentage or it might be a large amount – and we’re born with it! Conversely, every individual who is gay has a percentage of the heterosexual within him or her. The individual who is truly healthy, when it comes to his or her sexuality, is the one who can recognize that and handle it well.

Now this will be controversial even among my readers. Can you imagine trying to convince the Michel Bachmanns of the world that this is true?

Those who rebel intensely against any homosexual tendencies or characteristics they might have inside themselves are the ones who often turn out to be intensely homophobic. Having had this thesis offered to me for thought, I have often observed those homophobes I’ve met with this in the back of my mind – and wondered. I’ve wondered about the basis of or for the threat these people feel. Why the lack of sympathy, understanding and tolerance? Why the fear? Why the loathing?

I’ve had the good fortune to have a number of gay friends in my life. They’ve taught me a lot and helped me understand that one’s sexual character or inclinations – one’s sexuality, if you will – is not very often a matter of choice. I tried to express that a week or so ago in a blog I called BORN THIS WAY. If you haven’t read that, and this subject interests you, you may want to go back and read it.

So, on this historic morning for the people of New York, I am having two conflicting thoughts. One is, of course, of great joy and sense of celebration that the legislature and governor of that state could muster the courage and bravery it took to do what is right. It is a shame to say that, but the opposition to the legislative action is vicious and even dangerous.

My second thought is about what we will face here in Minnesota in the coming year as the campaign heats up about the ballot initiative to amend the constitution of our state to define marriage as only between a man and a woman. The campaign will be a difficult one and, at times, vicious and cruel. My chips are in and I’m committed to work against such an amendment because of the ignorance behind it.

I live in an area or region within this state that is extremely conservative. Most of my neighbors out here are instinctive and knee-jerk conservatives. This issue of gay-marriage is one they won’t even discuss. They dismiss the possibility out-of-hand. Nope! Never! Impossible! It is difficult to even have a discussion of sexuality because the subject is often regarded as taboo.

I remember one of my first and dearest gay friends. I’ve written about him here before. I met him in the late 60s and spent quite a few hours talking to him about the agony his parents were going through because of his femininity and obvious gay nature. My friend’s mother totally blamed herself; and his father was willing to agree with that assessment. I went with him on the long drive to his hometown and his parent’s house one day. They had agreed to sit down and discuss the subject. It took only a few minutes for the father’s fuse to burn down and he exploded on me and drove us both from “his” house, telling his son never to return. Within a few weeks, my friend was dead. He decided he could not go on living in such estrangement .

This is the complexity of this extraordinary issue. Oh, that we could celebrate love between human beings! That is what the legislation in New York State does. Hooray!

I’ve had chats with God about this and I’m convinced that He/She is on the side of allowing humans to love one another as fully and completely as they can.

Now, it’s on to Minnesota!

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